Preparing for Donor Conception Parenthood

Workshops for heterosexual couples and single women – Open to all members and non-members

One couple's experience:

'[the Preparation workshop]...was a hugely positive experience for us...finding people who were experiencing the same issues and having the opportunity to talk to people who'd been through it and come out the other side meant a great deal to both of us.  The videos are informative and gave us a great insight into some of the issues that are likely to come our way.  The two sessions we had on medical matters and social/psychology also gave us a great opportunity to answer many of the niggling questions that have been bugging us.  However, the main benefit was the chance to meet others who are going through this and just share our thoughts, fears, knowledge and hopes…'

One single woman's experience:

'Thanks for making me feel like I'm not alone!  It was great to meet other women in the same boat.  I would highly recommend to other 'thinkers', it gave me lots to think about'.

 

Who are they for?

These workshops are for heterosexual couples - or single women who have not yet conceived through donor conception (although you may have children who are not donor-conceived).  You may be contemplating egg, sperm, double or embryo donation with or without surrogacy or you may be currently having treatment.  The workshops are equally appropriate whether you plan to have treatment in the UK or abroad, with a known, identifiable or anonymous donor.  Couples will get most out of the workshop if both partners attend.  If you are single, you can come alone or are welcome to bring a family member or friend.  The maximum number on each workshop is 18.

Separate workshops for heterosexual couples and single women are held.  We recognise that the needs of single women may be different.

We run separate sessions for Lesbian Couples. Please click here

Who runs the workshops?

Two facilitators run each workshop; a man and a woman for heterosexual couples  and two women from solo mum families for solo mum workshops.  All facilitators are long-standing members of DCN, have donor-conceived children themselves, either from treatment in the UK or abroad, and in addition bring wider relevant professional and personal experience.  

What are the workshops about?

First and foremost, the workshops are a comfortable and confidential space to think about what it means to you to create or add to your family using a donor.  You may have already decided this is the path you are going to take but want to understand a bit more about the implications or you may not yet be clear that donor conception is right for you.  The workshop is a chance to gain information and to share your hopes, fears and concerns with others. This can feel daunting in prospect but the sense of release, support and solidarity gained is often seen as one of the greatest benefits.   Specialist speakers on the clinical and social and emotional aspects of donor conception will be available to discuss issues and answer your questions.  In addition two DVDs of parents and children talking about their thoughts, feelings and experiences will be shown with the opportunity for discussion afterwards.   Talking with others in small and large groups throughout the two days plus an evening meal together in a local restaurant helps to break the sense of isolation felt by so many people contemplating donor conception and friendships are often formed. 

You will receive an information pack by email in advance of the workshop.

Where and when are they?

The workshops are held over a weekend in London.  They run from 11am on the Saturday and, as an integral part of the course, include an evening meal together until around 9pm.  The workshop finishes around 2pm on the Sunday.  Lunch and dinner on Saturday and lunch on Sunday and refreshments are included in the price.

How much do they cost?

The 2018/9 cost is:              

                                     -single person        £280 or £250  early bird*

                                      -couple                 £500 or £450 early bird*

                             * early bird is one month before the workshop date

The fee covers venue hire, facilitators' fees and expenses, refreshments, one evening meal at a restaurant and 2 sandwich or soup lunches, training development and administrative costs.

One month before the workshop date we will decide whether the numbers of booked attendees are sufficient, and will either confirm or cancel.  If we cancel a full refund will be given.  Cancellations received 5 weeks before the workshop date will be refunded in full. Cancellations notified 3-5 weeks before the date will be refunded at 50%. We are unable to refund cancellations received with less than 3 weeks’ notice.

It is wise not to book travel or accommodation until we have confirmation of the numbers for each individual workshop.

Workshop Income

We offer two main workshops open to members and non-members, Preparation for Parenthood (for people considering donor conception) and Telling and Talking (for those with children up to 7yrs).

These workshops are very important in helping participants explore the issues related to donor conception relevant to their stage of parenthood. The prices we charge for these workshops reflect the costs of providing them and we do not make a profit. They are specialised, highly sensitive, professionally run events where we limit the numbers who attend to ensure everyone attending has a really personal and valuable experience. This makes them a little more expensive than some other workshops but we consider them to represent extremely good value for money and the feedback from those who attend confirms this.

 

How do I book?

Choose a workshop from the schedule below and check availability.  Then register your interest here: Preparation Booking Form

Use the link to the online booking form and complete it including the date you wish to book.  You will then be sent details of how to pay.  Your booking is only secure once we have received payment.  If no date is suitable, you can use the form to express interest and we will contact you when new dates are added.

Following confirmation of your booking by email, and about two weeks prior to the workshop we will ask you to complete a short survey online.  This is a requirement of your attendance, and must be completed by each person (rather than each couple).  You will also complete a short feedback form before you leave the workshop.  Anonymised evaluations from these workshops may be used in DC Network materials or for funding applications.

Terms and Conditions of booking

For a full list of our terms and conditions, please click here.

What if I am in a lesbian couple - do you run any workshops for us?

Yes we do but we offer a slighly different model.  Click here for further details.

 

What if I have already conceived through donor conception?

We also run Telling and Talking workshops for parents of donor conceived children aged between 0-7.  Click here for further details.

More questions?

Just contact us by email: events@dcnetwork.org and we will be happy to help.

 

WORKSHOP WEEKEND

Early bird price
cut-off date

Location

Type

Full/Early Bird Prices

Spaces

10-11 Nov 2018 10 Oct 2018 London Heterosexual couples £280 single or £500 couple 1 couple space left
2-3 Feb 2019 2 Jan 2019 London Heterosexual couples £280/£250 single or £500/£450 couple Yes
11-12 May 2019 11 April 2019 London Single women £280/£250 single or £500/£450 couple Yes
15-16 June 2019 15 May 2019 London Heterosexual couples £280/£250 single or £500/£450 couple Yes
7-8 Sept 2019 7 Aug 2019 London Heterosexual couples £280/£250 single or £500/£450 couple Yes
12-13 Oct 2019 12 Sept 2019 London Single women £280/£250 single or £500/£450 couple Yes
9-10 Nov 2019 9 Oct 2019 London Heterosexual couples £280/£250 single or £500/£450 couple Yes

To book Preparation Booking Form